I have helped my dad sell a few litters of puppies in the past (full blooded GSD) and I always bring the puppies to my house when they are weaned to acclimate them to cats and children. I have let these puppies come into my life and go to their new homes with ease each time, but this one is causing me so much uncertainty on how to proceed. I have had two German shepherds in the past but my last one passed away 10 years ago. I have someone who really wants this one-Wolfgang- but I’m struggling with it. There’s just something about him when I look into his eyes. He is very smart and makes immense progress each day. My 3 year old is also in love with him and says the cutest things like “He can’t leave. That’s my baby.” She has never really cared too awfully much about any of the other puppies but this one has a hold on her too. Remind me of all the things I need to consider, good and bad. Tell me why you love and loathe your dog. Whatever thought you just initially had, I want to hear that one!

You’re standing at a heart-wrenching intersection — the decision to keep Wolfgang or let him go. It’s a choice layered with both practical considerations and deep emotions. The way you describe him, it’s clear that he’s not just another puppy passing through. You feel a connection to him that’s tugging at you, and your daughter’s attachment only amplifies that pull. Let’s unpack this decision a bit further.
First, let’s talk about what keeping Wolfgang could bring to your life. You’ve had German Shepherds in the past, so you know what it’s like to have that strong, intelligent, loyal presence in your home. Wolfgang could be that companion, that protector, that four-legged family member who’s always there, eyes full of understanding and ears perked to every word. GSDs are renowned for their intelligence and trainability, and it sounds like Wolfgang is already showing signs of being a quick learner. Imagine him a year from now — a well-trained, confident, and protective dog who knows your daughter is his kid, his priority, his best friend.
There’s also something to be said for the bond your daughter is already forming with Wolfgang. Childhood pets can be some of the most profound friendships we ever experience. They teach us about loyalty, compassion, patience, and loss. Your daughter already sees Wolfgang as ‘her baby.’ How would she feel if he left? Would she understand why? Would she feel a sense of loss or confusion? Or could it be a teaching moment about the fact that we can love deeply and still let go when it’s the right thing to do?
Now, let’s look at the other side of the coin. Puppies are demanding — and German Shepherd puppies are intense. They need constant training, exercise, mental stimulation, and structure. Are you ready to take that on right now? Training a smart, active breed like a GSD is not just about teaching commands; it’s about shaping behavior and channeling energy. If you’re already stretched thin, that could become a source of stress rather than joy. And stress has a way of creeping into the bonds we form with our pets, turning what was once a sweet connection into a source of frustration or resentment.
Financially, puppies are also a significant commitment. High-quality food, regular vet visits, potential emergencies, and training classes all add up. Is your budget ready for that? And then there’s the lifestyle factor. If you keep Wolfgang, your ability to travel, spontaneously make plans, or even just take a break diminishes. Would you be okay with that? Would your daughter be okay with that? Would Wolfgang end up feeling like a burden instead of a blessing?
You also mentioned that someone else is interested in him. If that person is ready to give Wolfgang a committed, loving home, would you feel relieved to know he’s in good hands? Would it make you feel like you did the responsible thing, even if it was difficult?
Ultimately, the decision comes down to what your gut and your life are telling you. You already feel a bond with Wolfgang. You see something in him that’s pulling at you. But is that connection enough to sustain the months and years ahead? What would you miss most about him if you let him go? And if you decide to keep him, are you ready to embrace the sacrifices as well as the joys?
This isn’t just about keeping a puppy. It’s about opening your life to a new chapter, with all the love, work, and uncertainty that comes with it. Whatever you decide, trust that it’s the right decision for both you and Wolfgang — even if it doesn’t feel easy right now.